SWIFT

Finally somebody that's keep'n it real. I was and am Denise. My mother was your mother. My father was your father. A story that finally hit home. Keep writing. Kansas City - don't tell me you're a Swope Park kid tooooo.

This book kept my attention, and as a man reading a woman's book, that was hard to do. I thought it would be a male basher, but it wasn't. Instead it is very insightful. I'd rank D. Zenobia Swift as a very good storyteller - the flow was harmonious and it should be a movie. It doesn't compare to any movie because it's better than any one out there.

I purchased and read this book in 3 days. I couldn't put it down. It was realistic, it was insightful, it was truthful. It caused me to ask myself questions Denise asked herself and figure out if I was in the same places she was (emotionally and spiritually). This book was an enjoyable and inlightning.

This book was just what I was looking for. I didn't want some preachy book about how women have been opressed for so long. I didn't want someone to talk to me in a condescending way, or make assumptions about me or my partners. I wanted something concrete-a program or steps that I could follow. And this is exactly what I found! The author offers a step-by-step program, which guides you to orgasm by taking "baby steps" to get there. The program has helped my relationship immensly, and I know it will be a very rewarding journey all the way through to the last steps!

It seems that most of the sexual guides out there are geared to giving the man pleasure. In my experience that has never been a problem. The guides that are geared toward woman are usually filled with stories about muti orgasmic woman sharing their adventures. If you are a woman who really wants some clear cut advice that really works given in a friendly chatty kind of format this book is for you. It is written by a woman who had the frustation of regular unsatisfying sex herself and tells how she learned to overcome this. It was not written by some clinical doctor. The program teaches you how to be in control of your own orgasm in bed not be dependent on the abilities of your partner to have one. It's empowering. I definately recommend this book.

Of all how-to-do sex books for women, this one is the best because it focuses on the intimate relationship of women to their own sexuality. More than just giving techniques, Rachel Swift leads the reader to a very natural change in the everyday behavior, focusing on how to gain control in sexual (but it extends to more ...) situations by learning to develop the ability to satisfy oneself and to get familiar with one's own fantasies.